FAQ: How has your hair grown so quickly? MY TOP TIPS

So many people have been asking me lately how I have managed to grow my hair so quickly. And when I look at 'before' and 'after' photos, I can't actually believe how quickly it has grown.

From the photos, some of you may not be thinking it has grown that much, even if the colour and style is completely different! (I really don't know what I was thinking ever being THAT blonde!) But honestly, in the first photo, my hair was literally less than half an inch short underneath at the back, my hair was extremely choppy and it's taken time just growing the layers and fringe out. My hair was shorter than my chin, and within 8 months of deciding I wanted long hair, it has gotten to this point, and in good condition too.

So here is how I've done it! I'm not sure which of these factors are the biggest contributors to my hair growth, I think the combination of them all has worked absolute wonders! I am not a hairdresser or hair expert, but am merely going to talk about the things that have worked for me, and been recommended to me by my hair stylist.

1. Regular hair cuts: Some people think this is absurd to have your hair cut if you are trying to grow your hair. But if you don't have it cut regularly, your ends will just become even more dry, damaged and split, and then the hairdresser will have to cut inches off to return it to good condition - and then your hair will never grow! I have mine cut every 6-8 weeks, which is recommended by most hairdressers. My hairdresser takes off the tiniest amount from the ends, which she calls "dusting". It allows my hair to grow in really good condition and I never have to have masses cut off.

2. Lee Stafford Treatment for Hair That Never Grows Past a Certain Length: This is my favourite hair product of all time. It retails at £7.99 per tub in Boots and I absolutely love it. The packaging says to use between your usual shampoo and conditioner. You should get an egg-sized amount and rub in from roots to ends, and leave for 5 minutes. I like to really massage this into my scalp to moisturise it to encourage hair growth. The packet says to use on every wash until you notice results, then to use once a week after that. As I wash my hair every day, I use this every other day. It smells amazing and leaves my hair feeling so soft.

Also, I have quite thick hair and I find it falls out quite a bit, but since using this mask I'm losing a lot less! Even if you don't buy this particular product, I would recommend using a moisturising hair mask once a week.

Source: http://www.lucilleroberts.com/blog/beauty/7-hair-care-mistakes-to-avoid-2

3. No heat: Heat is the worst thing if you are trying to grow your hair. Heat is so damaging to your hair, and encourages split ends. It also tends to dry my scalp out. I used to straighten my hair every day when I had the really short bob in the first photo above, but as it got a bit longer and I could tie it up, I gave up straightening and any form of heat and just shoved it on top of my head. I never really blow dried my hair anyway because I'm super lazy, and with buns being quite 'in' at the moment, you can definitely get away with it. I noticed my hair really felt so much nicer when I gave up the heat, and because I still straighten my hair when I'm going anywhere nice, I notice my hair straightens so much better and looks so much shinier.

4. Detangling spray and comb: Brushing your hair when it is wet is really bad for it. Your hair is very vulnerable when it's wet, and brushing it can really encourage split ends. Damaged hair simply doesn't grow, simple as. And the hairdresser will just chop more off. So when I get out the shower, I spray my hair with a detangling spray and brush it through softly with a wide natural comb. At the moment I'm using the Loreal Paris Elvive Smooth and Polish Thermo Detangling Spray Leave in  

I'm going to purchase a Tangle Teezer next time I go uptown, as they're even better - they don't snag or pull on your hair at all! 

Source: http://www.gizoo.co.uk/Products/GenieHeadMassager.htm

5. Head massage: I started using this to relieve stress, because whenever I get stressed tension builds in my back, neck and head. But then I read somewhere online that massaging the scalp also helps to stimulate hair growth. This cost me $2 in New York, and I know you can get them really cheap online if you look in the right places. I don't do this regularly, but it is SO relaxing and if it encourages hair growth as well, it is like killing two birds with one stone!

Do you have any top tips for encouraging hair growth that could help me? I've still got a long way to go until I get my hair to the length I want. I hope these techniques work as well for you as they have for me!

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My Guide to getting Work Experience

I'm not saying I am a complete expert on getting work experience, but something I get asked frequently by so many people is, "How did you manage to get that work experience?"

Since I was 14, I have completed work experience during every school holidays, whether that be over Christmas, Easter or Summer. It has varied heavily, from one afternoon a week to the full on 9-5 five days a week. 

I am a Politics student, and my work experience is largely political. But I still hope you can gain some tips from this blog post, if you are looking to secure work experience.

So, a little about my experience. For four years, I helped at my local MP's Constituency office over the school holidays. I shadowed my MP for a week in London at the Houses of Parliament, and I shadowed my MEP in Brussels for a week also. I also spent Easter, and am spending my summer, as a Fundraising and Volunteer Intern at a local charity where I live. 

So here are my few top tips on how I feel I managed to gain this work experience! 

Me and my MEP, Emma McClarkin

1. Ask yourself - what do you enjoy? While your teachers, university and family will be telling you to get all the work experience you can, it is important that it is relevant to your interests and long term career aspirations. I have only ever done work experience that I WANTED to do, as I feel you get the most out of it. Even if you're not sure what you want to do in terms of careers, think in terms of your interests. Work experience only really looks good to employers if it is relevant, in my opinion. It doesn't have to be exactly specific to the career you aspire to, but there needs to be transferable skills involved which would tell employers you could do the job. When I completed work experience at school in year 10 which was compulsory, I signed up for something I thought I would really enjoy, and when I got there I hated it! So even if you hate it when you get there, it's useful in telling you that it's something you don't want to do when you're older! 

2. Have a killer CV! Don't just wander into somewhere and ask. Sometimes it may work don't get me wrong, but I've always applied in a formal manner to any work experience. I have always submitted a CV and a letter of interest to the person in question, whether by email or by post. Fine tune your CV. Make sure everything on it is relevant to the organisation in question, make sure spelling and grammar is excellent and make sure it looks professional. All they have to go on is that bit of paper you have handed to them, so make it stand out. Think of anything relevant that would make them want to let you complete work experience. For example, before I had any relevant experience so to speak, I mentioned that I canvassed and leafletted for council candidates a few years ago, that I studied politics at school and wanted to study it at university. They want to see that you're really really interested in their organisation, and not that you've just handed 50 of the same CV out to anyone and everyone.

3. Look the part For my work experience, I had a face to face meeting with each organisation before starting it. Personally I really like that, I like a chat about what you expect of the organisation, what they can expect of you, and it's a perfect opportunity to ask questions. They may even want to interview you. Look smart! Even though you are completely unpaid work, I always dress in formal office wear. Once you get there, if you notice everyone dresses casually, then when you start the experience, you can do so. I just think that first impression is so important, and by making an effort to look smart, they know how much you want it!

4. Communicate EFFECTIVELY Make sure your communication is appropriate to the organisation. Always be formal on initial contact - if you get a laid back chatty response, then obviously feel free to reiterate it. (But always make sure spelling and grammar is good) A few times I emailed my CV and I didn't get a response, so I rang up. Different organisations prioritise different communications, so just get to grips with how best to contact them.

5. Work on your interview skills Even though some people moan that they've been interviewed for work experience, I think it's a great opportunity to work on the skills you're going to have to demonstrate when you go out into the real world looking for jobs! Practice with a friend or family member - but make sure it's someone you will do it properly with rather than sat giggling at each other or not concentrating. Practice everything from greeting an employer with a handshake, to how best to exit. It makes it so much easier if they ask to meet you, and you'll feel less nervous

6. Perseverance Unfortunately, you may get a rejection response. This may not be because you aren't "good enough", sometimes it's that they don't have the space or feel that the nature of the work isn't suitable for someone to get to grips with in one or two weeks, or maybe there is a lot of confidentiality involved. Some people just aren't comfortable with work experience students. But just persevere and try other opportunities. I've had a few rejections, and it turned out something even better turned up, and I was glad I wasn't offered it, as I would have probably done that instead and not applied to anywhere else. If you don't get a response to your application via email, or if they said they would ring you back, ring them or email them again! Obviously don't completely pest them. But if they say I will ring you by Friday and they don't, ring on Monday. Or if you don't hear back by email, pop into the office and enquire about it, or ring up. Don't just give up! They will appreciate perseverance

7. Knock on effect Once you're in the door somewhere, I found I experienced a knock on effect. When I worked in my MP's constituency office here at home in Boston, his staff really appreciated me and put in a really good word to him, to support my application to shadow him. Then because I had worked with him, it looked good when applying to shadow my MEP. And again, my MP's constituency office rang her (because they are members of the same political party) and put a good word in. You'll find that if you're in any sort of department, you can always ask if there are opportunities in other departments or if they have partners or anything. The possibilities are endless! Even if they don't suggest other opportunities to you, use your initiative and ask yourself!

I hope you enjoyed this blog post, and if you have any questions please don't hesitate to comment below. I hope it could help at least one of you in some sort of way. 

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